Hospitality might sound unexciting or initially feel confusing. But when the Bible speaks of hospitality, it almost always ties it to aliens and strangers—people who aren’t like us. If I had to come up with a biblical definition for hospitality, I’d say it means to give loving welcome to those outside your normal circle of friends. It’s opening your life and your house to those who believe differently than you do.You may be in a position this holiday season to give loving welcome to those outside your normal circle of friends–right in your own family. It’s certainly easier to think that it’s someone else’s responsibility. You might not like their looks, their behavior, their choices, or their culture. You might even be offended that the person is present. But, does any of that really matter? “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares” (Hebrews 13:2) I’m not saying your brother’s new girlfriend is an angel. But God doesn’t ask us to show love and gospel-driven hospitality only when it’s easy and convenient. Sometimes we have that opportunity within our own families. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s a personal sacrifice. So if I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done for you. “Truly I tell you, a servant is not greater than his master, and a messenger is not greater than the one who sent him. If you know these things, you are blessed if you do them. (John 13:14-17) Jesus served his closest friends in a humbling way. He washed the dust, dirt, and grime from John and from Peter. But, he did the same thing for Judas. He washed the dust, dirt, and grime from Judas knowing exactly what was to come. But God proves his own love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Romans 5:8) While you were an enemy of God, he gave his life for you. If you struggle to show love to others this season, remember the sacrificial love Christ offered you while you were his enemy. “Show hospitality to one another without grumbling” (1 Peter 4:9) If you’re looking for ways to serve Christ, to show his love this season, you may not need to look any farther than the couch in your mother’s living room. You don’t need to preach. You don’t need to quote bible verses. All you need to do is choose to genuinely care about another human being.
Families Change: Handling Holiday Gatherings
Several years ago, I sat in my office working at a job that I’m grateful for—but do not love. I looked over at my art table which functions as a mini studio in my home and thought about how much I’d prefer to elbow deep in paint, paper, and glue. As I had that thought,
I see you. You can remember moments of joy in your life and so many individual moments of pain. You look a specific way, feel a certain way, and live a distinct way. You’re a completely unique combination of dreams, experiences, habits, loves, lessons learned, and potential to be realized. You have struggles and internal
Peek over my shoulder as I process my recent emotional speed bump through a step-by-step method designed to transform any experience into personal growth. Our lives are filled with both good and bad experiences. We can learn a lot from them, but only if we’re intentional about it.